Have a multi-day excursion or an elopement that lasts the whole day. A First Glance with Each Other, as Well as with Your Parents Include Only a Handful of Your Closest Friends and Family Members. Putting Your Personal Spin on Wedding Vows to Write. Serve Wedding Cake and a Selection of Other Desserts. Commemorate the occasion with a First Dance. Try Something That No One Else Will Ever Do. Additional things