How Do You Talk Flirty?

How to Chat Up Anyone and Everyone The Self-Assuredness Get rid of your predetermined answers. According to Fields, you should steer clear of any and all of the cringe-worthy dating advise that those who brand themselves "self-proclaimed dating gurus" tell you to follow. Make sure to make eye contact. Just roll with the punches. Complement their efforts. Make use of the environment. Ask questions. Introduce some comedy into the conversation. Smile.